11.26.2007

Thanksgiving

I just got back to Phoenix after spending almost a week in Muleshoe with my family for Thanksmas (we had "Christmas" on Thanksgiving this year). Nate is, of course, still in Iraq and got to enjoy a great Thanksgiving feast at the D-FAC (dining facility) in the IZ. He said the decorations were nice, and the food was great, but he missed being in Muleshoe. And we all missed having him there. Every year, Papa and my brothers brothers fry a turkey (or two), and Nate stuffs and roasts one. In Nate's absence, I was given the chore of stuffing the turkey. I'm pretty sure my family is ready for Nate to be home so he can roast the turkey next year! He does a much better job than I do. We all missed Nate for more than his cooking skills. My family LOVES Nate, and they all miss him almost as much as I do! Absence truly does make the heart grow fonder and this year at Thanksgiving, I am so thankful for Nate. There is no man like him, and I feel lucky to have him.

It is difficult to express the emotion of our time together this year. We are overwhelmed with memories of Tyler and his love for the holidays. We miss him so much - all the time, but especially during this season. Tyler loved cold weather and snow, and we got plenty of that this year! He also loved Thanksgiving and Christmas more than anyone I know, and we missed his joy this year, but we also made new memories and enjoyed being together. As we missed him, and celebrated his life, we spent a lot of time being thankful that we can claim victory over death because of Jesus Christ. I have never been more grateful for the reality that this life is such a tiny piece of time, and anxious for that sweet reunion. We have so much to look forward to in heaven, and we are thankful that God continues to shower us with blessings on earth.
We are all grateful for God's timing in giving us little nephews who are always reminders of God's renewal and blessing. Will and Levi are precious, and I don't think any of us can think of what we did before they were around! We loved spoiling them all week and I think Kara and Zach may have enjoyed getting to sleep in a little. I don't know how they do it!
Here are a few pictures from the week.
Me and the boys in our Notre Dame gear...we took this one for Uncle Nate.
Little Cowboys - Heather and Ben bought these hats for the boys...looks like they're ready for some ropin' and ridin'! So cute!
My amazing parents and Cori, the youngest Sheets kid. Proof that it snowed! Some crazies went outside when it had to be 15 degrees outside and tried to play football. It was so cold that, even with gloves, my fingers were so frozen they hurt! I lasted about 5 minutes! We miss playing with Tyler, but he lives on in every new memory we make. The guys with their fried turkey - we haven't burned the house down yet.... I just couldn't finish this post about Thanksgiving without adding a picture of Tyler.

7 comments:

Kara said...

i already miss the sleeping in...

it was great to be together, and i don't know how you remain so calm & strong without nate by your side. i am ready for him to be back!

Staci said...

Sounds like a wonderful Thanksgiving. Will and Levi are soooo cute! I love their grins!

Even though I didn't know Tyler...your love for him seeps thru every word and brings tears to my eyes every time I think about the loss you and your family feel. I'm so thankful that y'all can lean on Christ and God's promises during this time.

Matthew and Jessica Green said...

What a great read! You are an amazing friend, and seem to be an even more amazing daughter, sister, wife...I love that you added the pic of Tyler--very appropriate and he would be so 'honored'...and probably tease you about it! I miss you...I love hearing from you through email, blog or the phone. I cannot wait for your reunion with Nate in a few weeks...but I bet you are a wee-bit more excited than me!! Love you friend.

Julie said...

You look SO great with dark hair! I love it!!!

Thinking and praying of your family this time of year...

Matthew and Jessica Green said...

I love your new background for your blog...you will have to teach me how to update mine:)

Kate said...

Hey Terah,

I'm glad your family enjoyed a nice "Thanksmas" together. I'm praying for all of you as you feel Tyler's absence especially during the holidays. I've also been thinking about you and Nate being apart, and praying for you both to enjoy time with people you love and appreciate, and to have a sweet reunion.

I love the look of your new blog and that you have a slideshow of pictures at the top!

JeremyNSunny said...

Your blog is a bright spot, so fun to read, and so touching. The anniversary of Tyler's death has been on my heart as well, and I've prayed already for your family; there is more to be said than I can say. Just know my heart is with you.

I totally 'feel' you about the cooling down of the weather!! There is snow down here, now, close enough that we could go visit if we got the gumption; we haven't yet. ;)

The pictures you post and the stories you write so well are balm in all the 'yuck' of life. Bless you.

Hugs, sf